Technique 1: Don't criticize, condemn, or complain
"If you want to gather honey, don't kick over the beehive."
Its not good people skills to criticize peoples work or judge them.
Monday, January 11, 2016
School Break Days
Mainly for my break I would go out with my friends and I would also go to work. I went to the beach, hollywood, the mall, and I also got a chance to go to a senior event in the queen mary.
I also got a chance to get close to my co workers which i didn't meet before. I went to watch Star Wars and i was pretty disappointed since i didn't know the original storyline i was confused throughout the movie, but i also went to watch The Forest and that movie was pretty lame too, I only enjoyed watching Sisters, which was a comedy with Tina Fey and Amy Poehler. I didn't get a chance to watch or play any sports. I liked that I chose the fact to go to a job and be responsible instead of going out. A book a read for a little was Looking for Alaska, and it's a book i have been trying to finish but i haven't gotten around to it. I did homework that was assigned for my government class, and that was the only class i had homework for. I got a chance to meet some new people at parties and I became good friends with them as well.
Friday, December 18, 2015
Class/Self Evaluation
A. I enjoyed having to create my own website for this class. This assignment has been the most interesting because your ideas are being put together on your own website about anything you like. What I didn't like about this class is having to write a personal attribute or the 6 ways post because that isn't at all related to the topic of computers.
B. We could have spent much more time learning about creating websites and understand HTML and other things we didn't get a chance to learn about instead of working on a irrelevant topic.
I think I didn't do my best in this class. I could've have been more attentive throughout the semester.
I think I am committed to being a CTR person because I feel guilty when i chose otherwise. I always try to do the best thing and try to stay away from people who don't always choose the right.
Wednesday, November 18, 2015
Six ways to make people like you
Six ways to make people like you. If you want people to like you...
Rule 1: Become genuinely interested in other people
1)"Do this and you will be welcome anywhere."
2)"You can make more friends in two month by becoming interested in other people than you can in two years by trying to get other people interested in you."
3)"Ask questions to other people, questions that they would enjoy answering."
Its always good to show interest. Its better when the person makes the effort to be interesting or if this topic is about something you like
Rule 2: Smile
1)"Actions speak louder than words, a smile says, "i like you. You make me happy. I am glad to see you."
2)"You don't feel like smiling? Then force yourself to smile.""
3)"It creates happiness in the home, fosters good will in a business, and is the countersign (witness or indication) of friends."
Rule 3: Remember names
1)"A man's name is to him the sweetest and most important sound in any language."
2)"If you don't remember names, you are headed for trouble."
Its always important to remember names because it reminds the person you know who they are. It also indicates that you are interested in possibly befriending them in the future
How to remember names:
Rule 1: Become genuinely interested in other people
1)"Do this and you will be welcome anywhere."
2)"You can make more friends in two month by becoming interested in other people than you can in two years by trying to get other people interested in you."
3)"Ask questions to other people, questions that they would enjoy answering."
Its always good to show interest. Its better when the person makes the effort to be interesting or if this topic is about something you like
Rule 2: Smile
1)"Actions speak louder than words, a smile says, "i like you. You make me happy. I am glad to see you."
2)"You don't feel like smiling? Then force yourself to smile.""
3)"It creates happiness in the home, fosters good will in a business, and is the countersign (witness or indication) of friends."
Rule 3: Remember names
1)"A man's name is to him the sweetest and most important sound in any language."
2)"If you don't remember names, you are headed for trouble."
If you want to win friends, make it a point to remember them. If you remember my name, you pay me a subtle compliment; you indicate that I have made an impression on you. Remember my name and you add to my feeling of importance
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Ask for the name again if you don't hear it correctly the first time.
Use repetition
Study the person's face or other distinctive features.
Meet and repeat.
Rule 4: Be a good listener. Encourage others to talk about themselves.
"if you aspire to be good
1.Stay focused
2.Really listen, don't think about similar experiences or whats next
3.Allow for periods of silence
4. From time to time paraphase peoples words
5. understand emotion the words
5. Talk in terms of the other man's interest
"The royal road to a man's heart is to talk to him about the things he treasures the most."
when you talk to someone about their personal interest and such they will appreciate it and be into the conversation. People will know eruh 6.Make the other person feel important--and do it sincerely.
"The desire to be important is the deepest urge in human nature." (John Dewey) "Helping people feel important and appreciated works magic."
Reflection:It takes a lot of steps for someone to like you. There's certain things you have to do to seem likeable and for them to gain confidence and trust you. You first of all need to be genuinely interested in becoming their friend. Then that's when you take the steps to make them feel comfortable around you and even make them feel important.
"if you aspire to be good
1.Stay focused
2.Really listen, don't think about similar experiences or whats next
3.Allow for periods of silence
4. From time to time paraphase peoples words
5. understand emotion the words
5. Talk in terms of the other man's interest
"The royal road to a man's heart is to talk to him about the things he treasures the most."
when you talk to someone about their personal interest and such they will appreciate it and be into the conversation. People will know eruh 6.Make the other person feel important--and do it sincerely.
"The desire to be important is the deepest urge in human nature." (John Dewey) "Helping people feel important and appreciated works magic."
Reflection:It takes a lot of steps for someone to like you. There's certain things you have to do to seem likeable and for them to gain confidence and trust you. You first of all need to be genuinely interested in becoming their friend. Then that's when you take the steps to make them feel comfortable around you and even make them feel important.
Monday, October 26, 2015
"The six attitudes of High Achievers"
"The six attitudes of High Achievers"
1.Make no small plans
When you want to do good in a certain field, you should always go all out.You should always aim high and try to reach for your goal. the higher you aim the more likely you are to reach for it. It's always good to dream big because the more you dream of bigger things the harder you work to achieve.
2.Do what they fear
You should be brave enough to take action and not be afraid to do things. If people are afraid to do something you should be the first to do it Doing so will make you a memorable person and people will look up to you. Showing courage is a good trait to have because it makes you do things you never thought you'd do and even things people wish to do but are too afraid to do so.
“I must not fear. Fear is the mind-killer. Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration. I will face my fear. I will permit it to pass over me and through me. And when it has gone past I will turn the inner eye to see its path. Where the fear has gone there will be nothing. Only I will remain.”
3.Are you willing to prepare
you should be dedicated to what your about to do and you need to prepare yourself before doing it.
4.Are willing to risk failure
people should be willing to do something that may cause failure because they can learn from it
I always did something I was a little not ready to do. I think that’s how you grow. When there’s that moment of ‘Wow, I’m not really sure I can do this,’ and you push through those moments, that’s when you have a breakthrough.Marissa Mayer
5.Are teachable
there are certain people who don't learn things as easy as others. You have to have your full attention focused on the thing you are trying to learn and you will become teachable.
“The unteachable man is sentenced to being taught only by experience. The tragedy is he reaches nothing further than his own pain.”
― Criss Jami,
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1.Make no small plans
When you want to do good in a certain field, you should always go all out.You should always aim high and try to reach for your goal. the higher you aim the more likely you are to reach for it. It's always good to dream big because the more you dream of bigger things the harder you work to achieve.
You should be brave enough to take action and not be afraid to do things. If people are afraid to do something you should be the first to do it Doing so will make you a memorable person and people will look up to you. Showing courage is a good trait to have because it makes you do things you never thought you'd do and even things people wish to do but are too afraid to do so.
“I must not fear. Fear is the mind-killer. Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration. I will face my fear. I will permit it to pass over me and through me. And when it has gone past I will turn the inner eye to see its path. Where the fear has gone there will be nothing. Only I will remain.”
3.Are you willing to prepare
you should be dedicated to what your about to do and you need to prepare yourself before doing it.
“Everyone wants to win, but not everyone is willing to prepare to win.” – Bob Knight
people should be willing to do something that may cause failure because they can learn from it
I always did something I was a little not ready to do. I think that’s how you grow. When there’s that moment of ‘Wow, I’m not really sure I can do this,’ and you push through those moments, that’s when you have a breakthrough.Marissa Mayer
there are certain people who don't learn things as easy as others. You have to have your full attention focused on the thing you are trying to learn and you will become teachable.
“The unteachable man is sentenced to being taught only by experience. The tragedy is he reaches nothing further than his own pain.”
― Criss Jami,
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6.Have heart
You need to have a good heart and be sentimental.
These attitudes are all meaningful in their own way. Doing each one will lead you to high achieving. All the 6 attitudes will eventually lead you to success in your life. Each one is a important characteristic to have when trying to achieve something.
Friday, October 2, 2015
The 9 Ways
1) Be grateful
2) Be smart
Being grateful is something important and you should really appreciate what you have. Theres times whe
Most of us never stop to consider our blessings; rather, we spend the day only thinking about our problems. But since you have to be alive to have problems, be grateful for the opportunity to have them.
having or showing a quick-witted intelligence.
“Because you can't argue with all the fools in the world. It's easier to let them have their way, then trick them when they're not paying attention.”
3) Be involved in Good Works“Because you can't argue with all the fools in the world. It's easier to let them have their way, then trick them when they're not paying attention.”
- charitable acts.
- “Sometimes your light shines so bright that it blinds people from seeing who you really are.”
4)Be Clean
"I urge you to be clean in manner, to be courteous, to be respectful, to be honest, to be young men and older men of integrity."
5)Be True
Its always good to be true because its not good to put on a image of someone youre not. People will not want to be around a fake person
6) Be positive
“If you can dream it, then you can achieve it. You will get all you want in life if you help enough other people get what they want.” – Zig Ziglar
Its always good to be positive because it can really affect your mood all around. When you be positive things will look much better for you and you will do things with motivation and a good attitude.
7) Be Humble
“But lest some unlucky event should happen unfavorable to my reputation, I beg it may be remembered by every gentleman in the room that I this day declare with the utmost sincerity, I do not think myself equal to the command I am honored with.”
Being humble is a good thing because you stay grounded and don't get carried away with your ego.When your humble it lets people know that you're not egotistical or self centered as well and its reassuring to people and also gives them the idea that youre a good person.
8) Be Still
To Be Still is a conscious state. A state of mind where all outside forces are removed. To Surrender to the Omnipresent. To be one with the universe. A one way line of communication from the powers that be.
9) Be Prayerful
When you want to be happy its a whole process to get to that point. The 9 ways are the major points to getting closer to living a happy life. If you practice all the ways it leads you somewhere eventually. Basically it brings you closet to god and it builds a relationship aswell which is always a good thing. Being commited to the ways is a important factor to successfully live a happy life.
Thursday, September 24, 2015
Personal Development Attribute
commitment means the state or quality of being dedicated to a cause, activity, etc.
When you commit to something it means you're dedicated to it and there's no going back. Being committed means agreeing to do something and sticking to it. Its not a good look if you were to commit to something and you back down from it after. Willing to do something without having to or wanting to back down is what being committed is.
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