Six ways to make people like you

Six ways to make people like you. If you want people to like you...
Rule 1: Become genuinely interested in other people
1)"Do this and you will be welcome anywhere."
2)"You can make more friends in two month by becoming interested in other people than you can in two years by trying to get other people interested in you."
3)"Ask questions to other people, questions that they would enjoy answering."
Its always good to show interest. Its better when the person makes the effort to be interesting or if this topic is about something you like

Rule 2: Smile
1)"Actions speak louder than words, a smile says, "i like you. You make me happy. I am glad to see you."
2)"You don't feel like smiling? Then force yourself to smile.""
3)"It creates happiness in the home, fosters good will in a business, and is the countersign (witness or indication) of friends."

Rule 3: Remember names
1)"A man's name is to him the sweetest and most important sound in any language."
2)"If you don't remember names, you are headed for trouble."

Its always important to remember names because it reminds the person you know who they are. It also indicates that you are interested in possibly befriending them in the future

If you want to win friends, make it a point to remember them. If you remember my name, you pay me a subtle compliment; you indicate that I have made an impression on you. Remember my name and you add to my feeling of importance

How to remember names:

Ask for the name again if you don't hear it correctly the first time. 

Use repetition

Study the person's face or other distinctive features.

 Meet and repeat.

Rule 4: Be a good listener. Encourage others to talk about themselves.

"if you aspire to be good
1.Stay focused
2.Really listen, don't think about similar experiences or whats next
3.Allow for periods of silence
4. From time to time paraphase peoples words 
5. understand emotion the words
5. Talk in terms of the other man's interest

"The royal road to a man's heart is to talk to him about the things he treasures the most."
when you talk to someone about their personal interest and such they will appreciate it and be into the conversation. People will know eruh                                                                                                                                                                                                         6.Make the other person feel important--and do it sincerely.
     "The desire to be important is the deepest urge in human nature." (John Dewey) "Helping people feel important and appreciated works magic."
                                 
Reflection:It takes a lot of steps for someone to like you. There's certain things you have to do to seem likeable and for them to gain confidence and trust you. You first of all need to be genuinely interested in becoming their friend. Then that's when you take the steps to make them feel comfortable around you and even make them feel important.