Class/Self Evaluation

A. I enjoyed having to create my own website for this class. This assignment has been the most interesting because your ideas are being put together on your own website about anything you like. What I didn't like about this class is having to write a personal attribute or the 6 ways post because that isn't at all related to the topic of computers.

B. We could have spent much more time learning about creating websites and understand HTML and other things we didn't get a chance to learn about instead of working on a irrelevant topic.

I think I didn't do my best in this class. I could've have been more attentive throughout the semester.

I think I am committed to being  a CTR person because I feel guilty when i chose otherwise. I always try to do the best thing and try to stay away from people who don't always choose the right.

Six ways to make people like you

Six ways to make people like you. If you want people to like you...
Rule 1: Become genuinely interested in other people
1)"Do this and you will be welcome anywhere."
2)"You can make more friends in two month by becoming interested in other people than you can in two years by trying to get other people interested in you."
3)"Ask questions to other people, questions that they would enjoy answering."
Its always good to show interest. Its better when the person makes the effort to be interesting or if this topic is about something you like

Rule 2: Smile
1)"Actions speak louder than words, a smile says, "i like you. You make me happy. I am glad to see you."
2)"You don't feel like smiling? Then force yourself to smile.""
3)"It creates happiness in the home, fosters good will in a business, and is the countersign (witness or indication) of friends."

Rule 3: Remember names
1)"A man's name is to him the sweetest and most important sound in any language."
2)"If you don't remember names, you are headed for trouble."

Its always important to remember names because it reminds the person you know who they are. It also indicates that you are interested in possibly befriending them in the future

If you want to win friends, make it a point to remember them. If you remember my name, you pay me a subtle compliment; you indicate that I have made an impression on you. Remember my name and you add to my feeling of importance

How to remember names:

Ask for the name again if you don't hear it correctly the first time. 

Use repetition

Study the person's face or other distinctive features.

 Meet and repeat.

Rule 4: Be a good listener. Encourage others to talk about themselves.

"if you aspire to be good
1.Stay focused
2.Really listen, don't think about similar experiences or whats next
3.Allow for periods of silence
4. From time to time paraphase peoples words 
5. understand emotion the words
5. Talk in terms of the other man's interest

"The royal road to a man's heart is to talk to him about the things he treasures the most."
when you talk to someone about their personal interest and such they will appreciate it and be into the conversation. People will know eruh                                                                                                                                                                                                         6.Make the other person feel important--and do it sincerely.
     "The desire to be important is the deepest urge in human nature." (John Dewey) "Helping people feel important and appreciated works magic."
                                 
Reflection:It takes a lot of steps for someone to like you. There's certain things you have to do to seem likeable and for them to gain confidence and trust you. You first of all need to be genuinely interested in becoming their friend. Then that's when you take the steps to make them feel comfortable around you and even make them feel important.

"The six attitudes of High Achievers"

"The six attitudes of High Achievers"
1.Make no small plans
When you want to do good in a certain field, you should always go all out.You should always aim high and try to reach for your goal. the higher you aim the more likely you are to reach for it. It's always good to dream big because the more you dream of bigger things the harder you work to achieve.

2.Do what they fear 

You should be brave enough to take action and not be afraid to do things. If people are afraid to do something you should be the first to do it Doing so will make you a memorable person and people will look up to you. Showing courage is a good trait to have because it makes you do things you never thought you'd do and even things people wish to do but are too afraid to do so.
“I must not fear. Fear is the mind-killer. Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration. I will face my fear. I will permit it to pass over me and through me. And when it has gone past I will turn the inner eye to see its path. Where the fear has gone there will be nothing. Only I will remain.” 
3.Are you willing to prepare
 you should be dedicated to what your about to do and you need to prepare yourself before doing it.

“Everyone wants to win, but not everyone is willing to prepare to win.” – Bob Knight

4.Are willing to risk failure
people should be willing to do something that may cause failure because they can learn from it
I always did something I was a little not ready to do. I think that’s how you grow. When there’s that moment of ‘Wow, I’m not really sure I can do this,’ and you push through those moments, that’s when you have a breakthrough.Marissa Mayer

5.Are teachable
there are certain people who don't learn things as easy as others. You have to have your full attention focused on the thing you are trying to learn and you will become teachable.
“The unteachable man is sentenced to being taught only by experience. The tragedy is he reaches nothing further than his own pain.” 
― Criss Jami,

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6.Have heart

You need to have a good heart and be sentimental.

These attitudes are all meaningful in their own way. Doing each one will lead you to high achieving. All the 6 attitudes will eventually lead you to success in your life. Each one is a important characteristic to have when trying to achieve something.

The 9 Ways

1) Be grateful

Being grateful is something important and you should really appreciate what you have. Theres times whe

Most of us never stop to consider our blessings; rather, we spend the day only thinking about our problems. But since you have to be alive to have problems, be grateful for the opportunity to have them.

2) Be smart

having or showing a quick-witted intelligence.

“Because you can't argue with all the fools in the world. It's easier to let them have their way, then trick them when they're not paying attention.” 

3) Be involved in Good Works

1. charitable acts.
2. “Sometimes your light shines so bright that it blinds people from seeing who you really are.” 
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4)Be Clean

"I urge you to be clean in manner, to be courteous, to be respectful, to be honest, to be young men and older men of integrity."

5)Be True

Its always good to be true because its not good to put on a image of someone youre not. People will not want to be around a fake person 

6) Be positive

“If you can dream it, then you can achieve it. You will get all you want in life if you help enough other people get what they want.” – Zig Ziglar

Its always good to be positive because it can really affect your mood all around. When you be positive things will look much better for you and you will do things with motivation and a good attitude.

7) Be Humble

“But lest some unlucky event should happen unfavorable to my reputation, I beg it may be remembered by every gentleman in the room that I this day declare with the utmost sincerity, I do not think myself equal to the command I am honored with.” 

Being humble is a good thing because you stay grounded and don't get carried away with your ego.When your humble it lets people know that you're not egotistical or self centered as well and its reassuring to people and also gives them the idea that youre a good person.

8) Be Still 

To Be Still is a conscious state. A state of mind where all outside forces are removed. To Surrender to the Omnipresent. To be one with the universe. A one way line of communication from the powers that be. 

9) Be Prayerful

When you want to be happy its a whole process to get to that point. The 9 ways are the major points to getting closer to living a happy life. If you practice all the ways it leads you somewhere eventually. Basically it brings you closet to god and it builds a relationship aswell which is always a good thing. Being commited to the ways is a important factor to successfully live a happy life.

Personal Development Attribute

commitment means the state or quality of being dedicated to a cause, activity, etc.

When you commit to something it means you're dedicated to it and there's no going back. Being committed means agreeing to do something and sticking to it. Its not a good look if you were to commit to something and you back down from it after. Willing to do something without having to or wanting to back down is what being committed is.

Personal Development Statement

"The key to freedom is obedience. The more obedient we are, the more freedom we have."

Boyd K. Packer

this is showing signs of assertiveness.When you follow what you're supposed to do it will eventually lead you to freedom. Its obvious that being obedient leads you to freedom because nothing else says freedom like following rules and being obedient.

Personal Development Attribute

reliable - consistently good in quality or performance; able to be trusted.

Being reliable is a good and positive thing to be.People will like you if they know you are reliable. You will be the person to go to when they need help with something and expect good results. You will be considered a trustworthy person and that is always a good thing. Reliability is a overall positive trait to have and everyone should learn how to be reliable.

On September 11, 2001, al-Qaeda, an Islamist terrorist organization led by Osama bin Laden, executed a plan in which a group of 19 men, mostly from Saudi Arabia, hijacked four passenger jets in order to crash them into the NYC World Trade Center's twin towers, the Pentagon, and possibly the Capitol Building.

Decisions Determine Destiny

Thomas S. Monson

Whichever path you choose to follow will overal

Personal Development Attribute

Boldness is not hesitating or fearful in the face of actual or possible danger or rebuff; courageous and daring: a bold hero. not hesitating to break the rules of propriety; forward; impudent.

When you take bold decisions its when you know youre right and are stepping up and taking action. It can also be facing your fears and setting them aside to do something risky or scary. To be bold one must be loud, clear, assertive and confident.

Personal Development Attribute

Attitude
a settled way of thinking or feeling about someone or something, typically one that is reflected in a person's behavior.

Your attitude is important and it can define who you are. If you have a nasty attitude it will make you a not so nice person but if you have a great attitude it will reflect on you and you will seem like a nice person. Attitude will overall define who you are as a person so its important to have a good attitude

Personal Development Quote

"A man without a goal is like a ship without a rudder." 

Thomas Carlyle

The attribute for this quote is assertiveness. Thomas is stating how important it is to have a goal set in mind to try to achieve it. When you set goals you are more determined to try and achieve that. It is very important for a ship to have a rudder, metaphorically speaking, just the way a man is to his goal. This relates to my life planning goal because from that, I can set one goal that i truly want to achieve

Assertiveness

Assertiveness is the quality of being self-assured and confident without being aggressive.

When being assertive, the way you act is what matters. Being assertive is taking action and doing what you know is right, a mixture of passive and agressive behavior is the perfect balance to define asertiveness.

Personal Development Attribute

Accountability-the fact or condition of being accountable; responsibility.
Being accountable in certain things comes n handy. you set your priorities straight and all then you know what to expect. if  you do something your accountable for it whether its good or bad you take credit for it.